Firstly: I read the title and replied out loud: "yes, you are". And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. We're constantly either telling people to be more or be less and whilst sometimes that's warranted (like for people who are shy and just need someone to help them come out of their shell) - most of the time people just need to mind their own business
Secondly, I'm currently watching the latest season of Married at First Sight Australia and there's one girl on there who is literally experiencing this. She might be too much for someone, but she's someone else's perfect - and I think more and more, we need to remember that. Your people aren't going to minimise you. Your people aren't going to nudge you to becoming someone you're not.
every since someone told me they could only take me in doses and that I shouldn’t care so much, I constantly ask myself this - thanks for sharing 🩶
I have two things to say:
Firstly: I read the title and replied out loud: "yes, you are". And there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. We're constantly either telling people to be more or be less and whilst sometimes that's warranted (like for people who are shy and just need someone to help them come out of their shell) - most of the time people just need to mind their own business
Secondly, I'm currently watching the latest season of Married at First Sight Australia and there's one girl on there who is literally experiencing this. She might be too much for someone, but she's someone else's perfect - and I think more and more, we need to remember that. Your people aren't going to minimise you. Your people aren't going to nudge you to becoming someone you're not.
Always be authentic to who you are. Never let anyone shrink you down!!!